Can't complain, bro, to be honest. I'm feeling amazing.
I've done some amazing things the last couple of months in terms of business, in terms of life, in terms of health.
So I can't complain, bro.
Yeah, obviously you just moved up to the Gold Coast and you've been a fan.
Obviously this is home for you and you've been coming up for a while.
You're welcome, brother.
I've got to say thank you. You've made me do it.
I asked Pete the same question just before, bro.
What's the hardest part about transferring or leaving football?
I guess for me, man, it's been an easy process.
I kind of set myself up to a point where I knew I was going to retire, so I retired on my terms.
A lot of people don't get to do that, or players don't get to do that.
So I really haven't struggled in terms of transitioning out of the game.
The work that I do with the Broncos still gives me a lot of purpose.
The work that I do with my business, Legacy Through Movement, gives me a lot of purpose in my community.
And I've still got the flexibility.
It's been there for my family, bro.
So I guess understanding what's your purpose after footy has always been the hardest part for players, man.
But I found that purpose straight away.
You say that word purpose a lot.
What is your purpose?
My purpose is about giving back.
Giving back to the next generation in terms of the kids in high school.
Because when I was in high school, bro, I knew I wanted to play rugby league, but I never knew what was my plan B.
What else was there for me?
Outside of footy.
So trying to create those pathways for those kids in high school to understand who they are, what's their identity, what's their values and what they want to do.
That gives me purpose, man.
So that hopefully they can eliminate some of the mistakes that I made and try and speed up the process and understanding what's their goals in life and what's their purpose in life.
But then also, too, with the gym, I get to give back to my community and educate them around the positives of why we train.
And it's not around being physically well.
It's the mental side of the game.
There's so much more benefits outside of training and being healthy that people don't understand, bro.
And that's what we try and do at Legacy.
Is that your favorite part about running the gym?
Yeah.
That's why we started it.
It was around creating a safe space for people to come and exercise, be themselves, be a part of a team environment.
That's why.
My gym is not a 24-hour gym where you can just come in and lift weights by yourself.
We train in a team environment.
So understanding the importance of showing up for your meets, understanding the importance of being a good mate and being there for one another,
understanding the importance of showing up for yourself and just celebrating the little wins.
So we commend people that just turn up and walk through the door because they already won.
You know what I mean?
That's cool.
The hardest part is getting out of bed and showing up to the gym at 5 in the morning.
You guys train early up here, man.
Yeah, we do, bro.
That's the Gold Coast lifestyle, to be honest.
You feel inspired to get up and be active.
If you go for a walk down the beach at 5 in the morning, there will be hundreds of people doing it.
And they've got their dogs and all the meat, their dogs, their kids.
Everyone's active, bro.
And you can't help but feel inspired to do so.
Yeah.
And you kind of have to start getting in shape because we get a little bit older and we come through a time where going out is how we connected as football players and as men.
But I feel like it's switched up.
We connect through exercise now.
The thing I love about gym, and I've trained at Legacy and it was like all time.
But you meet people that you wouldn't normally meet.
And I find that in business where when I first got into business, I was kind of only looking for entrepreneurs that I'd relate to.
When I was in football circles, we would only hang around dudes that were doing the same sort of stuff as us.
Where you go to a gym, you just meet a guy that you do weightlifting, you just connect with him straight away.
And it pushes you into that sort of certain environment.
You become friends with different types of people, which I find really interesting.
For sure, bro.
And that's the cool part, right?
So, like, it's not from an industry that we come from, whereas professional athletes, it's hard to get into that demeanor.
In a gym, bro, it's everyone from all walks of life, man.
Like, you could be standing inside a professional athlete.
You could be standing inside a chippy or a uni degree student or whatever it may be.
But coming together, you know, and trying to better yourself, trying to create the best version of yourself, that's what's beautiful about exercise.
It brings all walks of life together.
You can connect with one another.
You can figure out or you can find out some similarities that one person has.
And that's what I love, man.
Our community at Legacy, bro, is so diverse.
Man, it's not just young, fit people, bro.
We got moms.
We got dads.
We got grandparents in there getting it done.
And I just love it, bro.
I love it.
Because at the end of the day, they're showing up for themselves, which means it allows them to show up for their family and show up for their people as well.
That's really important, eh?
Now, how do you start Legacy, bro?
So, me and Jeremiah, we've known each other for over 15 years, man, through school and all that stuff, through family.
Another Cook Island boy.
Good-looking fella, bro.
Good-looking fella.
Am I the ugliest Cook Islander?
Nah, don't be hard on yourself, my bro.
Come on, man.
We all got our strengths, bro.
Yeah, I'm just a talker, eh?
Just get him with, hopefully, a bit of chat.
Make him laugh, bro.
Strengths.
We've known each other for a long time.
When I first moved to the Gold Coast here, we caught up at a barbecue.
He's been in the industry for over 10 years.
And I've watched the movement that he does from afar.
He's been very close mates with a lot of my friends.
And when the time come, when I was hanging up the boots, I actually jumped under his wing, bro, and just started training with him in the mornings.
Because, again, you're trying to find your purpose, right?
Going from an industry where you train every single day for footy.
As a job, eh?
As a job.
Like, I knew exercise was still going to be a big part of my life.
So, they were training at a gym called A&PM, which is where Legacy is now.
And I started training under him, bro.
And I was like, you know what?
If there's someone that should have their own gym, it's you.
Because you live by it.
You live the standards.
And you're also that positive role model within the community.
You've got a mad rig, too.
Yeah.
If you don't know him, if you don't know him.
Crazy rig, bro.
And I was like, if there's an opportunity for us to start our own, I'd love to do it with you.
And the opportunity came about.
A&PM was sort of…
Well, A&PM started from one of our friends.
Yogi.
And he passed away, unfortunately, through a stunt under Bliss and Esso's video clip.
And that guy is epitomized or was a role model for myself, Jerry, Dills.
Like, he was just the most positive human being that inspired you.
You know those people where when you leave their presence, you feel good.
You know what I mean?
Like, you just can't help but feel amazing, feel good, and feel like,
that's the people I want to hang around.
Yeah, for sure.
So, when he passed, man, it was like a piece of us left as well.
So, when that time came, we were like, you know what?
We want to try and live and be like Yogi did every single day.
Because he brought calisthenics to the Gold Coast.
He created that Cali vibe down at the Burley Bars, down in Fifth Ave there.
And his community that he had on a Sunday morning at those bars was just…
Bro, it was powerful.
It was powerful, man.
And so, he started AMPM, which was Art of Motion Pursuit of Movement.
Yeah, I remember him doing…
I didn't know who he was, but I remember him doing a video and he said AMPM
and he said that morning to night.
But what was the acronym?
Yeah, Art of Motion Pursuit of Movement.
Yeah, that's sick.
Because I remember hearing that.
I was like, oh, that's well thought out.
Bro, huge, man.
And so, his background, right?
So, he was a stuntman and he just loved, you know, doing all that Cali movement.
He loved breaking the boundaries of what you're doing.
What your body could do, man.
And when you look at, you know, his social media content, bro, it was elite.
He was far beyond anyone on the Gold Coast, any influencer.
Like, he wasn't an influencer, but the way he influenced his community was powerful.
Yeah.
And so, he started that gym or actually his business partner started a gym in memory of him when he passed.
And so, when I started training there, you could just feel like something wasn't right.
You know what I mean?
And so…
With the current name as is.
Oh, just with how business was operating.
And ironically, his business partner wanted out of the game.
So, we were like, let's take it.
Let's jump on board.
So, we took the lease on.
The business partner kept the name, which we were gutted about, but life moves on.
So, when we started thinking of how do we recreate or how do we live Yogi's legacy?
How do we continue his legacy?
That word kept popping up.
And every name that we came up with.
So, Legacy TM is actually legacy through movement.
Carrying on his legacy, out of motion, pursuit of movement.
Legacy through movement is carrying on Yogi's legacy, but also allows for my legacy, allows for Jerry's legacy,
and also allows for our community's legacy to be left behind.
So, when we say to our members that walk through the door, it's, what's your legacy that you want to leave behind in your life?
You know what I mean?
Because we're all about empowering each other.
Be the best version of themselves.
So, in every day, in every opportunity that we get every single day, what's your legacy?
What do you want to be known by?
And as a good human being, as a respectful, as a good friend, you know what I mean?
And it makes you think every single day, am I living up to my standards?
Am I living up to my legacy?
So, that's how the name came about.
That's how our partnership with me and Jerry came about.
And our philosophy with our gym was like, there's a thousand gyms everywhere.
There's a few up here.
There's heaps.
Like, you go 100 meters down the road, there'll be another gym, bro.
You know what I mean?
So, what's our point of difference?
And it was, our point of difference is creating that safe space for everyone to come through.
I know gyms always say, we're all about community.
You know what I mean?
But, coming from a, you know what I mean?
Every gym's like, oh, we're community.
We're all about community.
But for us, man, and I'm not saying that they're not.
But for us, coming from a team environment where when you play footy, you're never going to have success.
Unless you're doing it as a team.
No one player's going to bring success to the team.
So, I lived in this culture where I had to be a captain of a team that was so young.
So, I had to teach them standards.
I had to teach them ethics.
I had to teach them cultural aspects.
It allowed me to use those skill sets and transition it into a community environment.
And it's been the best learning that I could ever do, bro.
What's the hardest part about?
Teaching standards to a professional NRL player to just your average partner who gets around every single day.
Because, like, when I first started training, when I left football, like, we had things ingrained in us.
As from, like, touching lines, not skipping corners, that, like that.
You never forget.
And then I remember doing stuff like that and people were just like, bro, 100%.
I used to sit there and burn, but it just wasn't my place to say, I'm not going to go touch the fucking line.
Yeah, yeah, 100%, bro.
There was always a, there was always a...
Black sheeps in each team, right, that will take those shortcuts.
But I think for me, the biggest lesson that I learned, man, is when I jumped out of professional sports, man,
I had this expectation that everyone was wired that way.
So, when I came to the community and just your local builder and mum and all that stuff,
I had to actually take a look at myself and just be like, man, I can't have high expectations on these people.
Although I demand that and I want them to push themselves, like, the difference between a professional athlete and just an everyday Joe Blow is, like, you get paid to be that level.
Whereas these guys are showing up to give back to themselves.
So, you've got to have, you've got to have empathy towards these guys for showing up.
And so, yeah, it's been a beautiful thing, though.
It's almost you celebrate effort over results, eh?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, like, for me, right, I celebrate these guys showing up.
I celebrate these guys showing up every single day.
It brings a smile to my face because they choose to do it.
They're not paid to do it.
So…
They're paying you to do it.
Yeah.
Yeah, bro.
But, like, it makes me see, like, I'm not a trainer at our gym.
I actually train with everyone.
And I love that because it's the best start to my day.
And seeing the results within mums, dads, and just your average Joe Blows, like, one of the boys, his name's Marcel.
He's a builder, bro.
And he showed me his training.
And he showed me his transition in the last six months, just recently.
And it's a beautiful thing, bro.
Because one thing you cannot do is you can't pay hard work.
You can't pay, like, your biggest flex is your physique, is your health, is your body.
So, if you walk into a business room…
You can't shortcut that.
Yeah.
If you walk into a business room or a business meeting and you're fit, bro, and you're toned up,
the people that you're either pitching or you're trying to work business with, they already know,
all right, this guy's got self-discipline.
This guy works hard on himself.
So, whatever he's going to say, I know he's not bullshitting.
You know what I mean?
And that's a flex in itself.
And that's what I…
That's a good way to look at it, Al.
I've never heard that.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But it makes so much sense.
You can't help but respect someone.
Yeah.
Right?
Yeah.
If you're turning up to, say, a PT, you're going to get PT'd by someone that's overweight.
You know what I mean?
You're going to be second-guessing, does this person actually know what he's doing?
That's being truthful.
Yeah, yeah.
But if you're showing up and someone's like…
Very fit, looks amazing, you're going to listen to whatever they say.
You're going to do whatever they say.
So, it's the same thing with business.
If you show up to a meeting, man, and you're looking fit, these people are going to be
like, all right, he's the real deal.
There's no bullshit in his life.
Yeah, 100%.
Broncos, obviously, one club.
I talk to a lot of people on podcasts, and I hardly ever talk to people that have stayed
at one club, which is pretty crazy when you think about it, because a lot of things happen
with them.
Football injuries.
New players come in.
You were able to be a one-club person.
What's it like reflecting back on something like that, and for a club like the Broncos?
Yeah, I pride myself on that.
Because, obviously, there would have been times you could have left.
Very easy.
Yeah.
And there was a period in the 2019, bro, I went down to Penrith, and that was the first
time I've ever travelled to a different club to look at the club, because I pretty much,
throughout the year…
I wasn't given, pretty much said that I'm not going to be here next year, you know what
I mean?
So, that was the only time where I went to another club, and I met Ivan and Greg Alexander,
and got to see the facilities, where I was like, man, I'm not going to be here anymore.
And then they went on and started their successful journey, you know what I mean?
Could have been part of you, man.
But I look back, and I spent 14 years at the club.
I'm still working with the club.
Yeah.
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Because, like we were saying just before, it's very rare that it happens these days.
And I understand that, bro, you've got a short career in the game, so you want to make the
most out of the game.
But for me, when I came to the club, I idolized the Warriors and Broncos.
So, those were my two teams growing up.
And then I watched Darren Lockyer, Corey Parker, Sammy Thaide talk about how much they loved
the club, how much the club has done for them.
them what's their values at the club and i was just like man that's what i want to be and so
it wasn't a hard decision on myself yeah i could have made more money but
the the way my career panned out the things that i achieved at the club as a kiwi kid
i'm the only non-australian captain to ever captain that club that's sick huge yeah huge
milestone something i never ever set out to do um i'm also um the fourth most capped player at
the brisbane broncos so i overtook um alfie overtook greg that's crazy you know what i mean
holy shit i overtook wally laws overtook shane webke all these idols that are idolized i was
able to play more games than all of them um there was only three players that beat me and that was
darren lockyer cory parker sam thiday fair enough man you know what i mean like those guys are just
goats of my eyes so to be up there with them and and to to be a captain of a club
i idolized had ticks all the boxes so i'm very grateful you can you can sit at the table with
those guys for the rest of your life and not feel an element of imposter syndrome you know what i
mean yeah i feel like i belong at this table 100 which would be a cool feeling it's a cool feeling
man and like this this thursday bro there's a um an opening of um the captain's wall at the new
star casino in brisbane like it's been a huge project i'm getting done and i look at my picture
up there like this is up there for for
a long long time there's wally laws there's um darren lockyer there's sam thiday like
these legends in my eyes and then there's this kiwi bloke up there too you know what i mean
it's pretty cool bro pretty cool yeah i didn't win a premiership but i ticked every other box
um that i ever set for myself and to do it at one club i can hold my head high and be proud of it
does the premiership one hurt does bro absolutely bro it does it does man because you train so hard
in that point and to have it in like in our grass i still pinch myself and kick myself for saying
this because i've never been one to do it but there was less than a minute to go um and anthony
milford picked up the scraps we were like two meters off our line and he started running down
the field he was open you know what i mean and i was like man we've won we won i looked to koreota
i go we did it for the first time in my whole career i celebrated early you know what i mean
the rest is history bro like michael morgan um michael morgan um what's it he he knocked the
ball out of milford's hand and they went on and scored a try in the corner and then we weren't
golden point and the rest was history and i never forgive myself in that in that moment bro you know
what i mean i was just like i reckon everyone in that whole team would have a certain thing that
they could relate to you know it reminds me of you know when you drop a plate in real life and
it feels like it goes in like slow motion yeah that's what that sort of game sort of fell out
of you know the last grand final the broncos win that when you're defending a lead it's like time
goes forever when you're chasing a lead bro time's really short i can't imagine what it would have
been like going through that yeah bro it was it was hard man good to watch from a casual yeah from
from from a spectator yeah man that's from a team that got knocked out knocked out yeah i was mad to
watch yeah yeah bro and like when when you sit on the sideline man and you're watching your mates
in in the grand final like you're kind of cheering them on but at the same time you don't want them to
have one up on you you know what i mean 100 100 yeah that's real that's a real chat there yeah
100 bro but in saying that my best mate antonio winterstein was playing on that side um and he
just lost his brother earlier that year to suicide oh yeah so i i look at it this way and i'm like
you know what things happen for a reason and um he was meant to win that that that game bro so
i couldn't be more happier as a mate for him to do it for his brother and for himself bros yeah it's
one way to look at it but i still go to his house and i'm like that shouldn't be my uh here's a
question is losing grand finals a part of the broncos dna now because they're the last two gfs
yeah the last two gfs in the last 10 years we we've lost them bro um and i guess this is it's
a good point um as a club man we we need to grow from this like to lose a 16 point lead man it's
unheard of you know what i mean but the saying goes man like you can't
the full time's not done so the full the whistle goes you know what i mean and when you got a
player like nathan clary that comes out and does what he does man if he's on that field man it's
not over um and how do we grow from this you know i think i you look at the club this year i think
they're still trying to learn from it um we haven't had the success that we did last year
we did lose some big players in that but we still had the spine you know what i mean from last year
uh injuries played a toll on it all but at the same time you guys have had a rough run this year
we've had a rough run we've had a rough it is what it is a hundred percent but we got to learn from
it you know what i mean and uh you hear all the greats say that your biggest lessons are the are
the ones that you never took and and the ones that you never won from um so yeah it's a it's a crazy
dynamic but do i believe that there's a premiership close uh coming home to brisbane soon absolutely
you do have the team to do it
when you look at that you look at the team now and you were the captain of that side when they
were like a lot younger and you talked about this before and like when siebes and that were there
did you anticipate they'd be as good as they are take away this year's results did you anticipate
they were going to be this good because i remember chico talking about paddy and pain and like how
good they are in tones you're coming through but you you saw that i seen it bro i seen it um being
a captain through that the struggles right so if you think about it um our boys are fresh out of
high school and if you go watch high school footy you're going to see that they're going to be
it's all about attack right so these boys really um like credit to themselves they they had to learn
the hard way they had to learn what it's like to be a first grader at suncorp on friday night in
front of everyone yeah the most ruthless you know support that we got because they're passionate
and our clubs always had success you know i've never been to another club so i don't know what
the standards are at another club but at the brisbane broncos you always pride yourself
every single year to be a top four team and if you don't make it you're not going to make it
top four like you consider that as a learning bro like we got to be there that's our standard
every single year so from a fan's perspective like we need to be up there all the time
in those in those dark days where we got water and spoon and we're at the bottom of the table
that's a new feeling for all of us for our fans for all of us and when you're at a one city team
at the time like the media attention is all on us you know what i mean um no disrespect to the
or the lions and that but like that's a new feeling for us
that's bronco city man um and so they expect you to be successful regardless um so trying to
help these boys uh through the struggles on and off the field it was a list it was a huge lesson but
it showed me that these guys are willing to work hard because there was no fault in their efforts
they were like they were really working hard man they had the most amazing talent that me looking
at it going what am i doing i'm not going to work hard i'm not going to work hard i'm not going to
what am i still doing here these 18 year old 19 year olds like pain has coming through
fresh out of school he led a whole conditioning block and it made me think what are they feeding
these kids in high school you know what i mean because he was huge 120 kilos and he was fit as
hell and he's still fit as hell one of the best props in the game um and like i i seen their raw
talent and all it all it was going to take was for them to um get that experience under the belt
for them to be the next dominating crew
and there's no no surprise of you know the likes of paddy his performances consistently
bro he's one of the best i love one of the best i love when he's mic'd up and they show all the
footage of him i love listening to him talk yeah i find that stuff so interesting bro and he's just
so the best part is like everyone raves about how good looking he is but he's just a good human
being bro yeah good human being that's um it looks that it looks like that yeah 100 and that's the
same with pain bro like you think about all
the attention that he's got off the field you know i mean for him to perform every single week
and to block it out to go through ramadan week or month you know what i mean there's no one else
doing that man and he's still one of the best props out there he can go 80 minutes if he wants
to go 80 minutes um you know he's taken in his younger brothers into his household he's got
another baby on the way yet nothing uh gets in the way of what his job is as a as a broncos player
it's crazy man i remember benny merlin it's telling a story is where pain went over to
warriors to do like a pre-season week maybe with them i think mox was the coach at the time
and um won all the conditioning blocks with the whole nrl squad yeah yeah and like
and mox's guys like you got the young kid coming over like showing all you guys up
yeah ended up being pain bro yeah because you you think right so a pacific islander background
if you're 120 we were never leading yeah the the conditioning we were always known to be
the ones that were at the back of the pack yeah and we come off the bench making impacts
like short sharp stints powerful um but this guy just changed the dynamic bro and i'll still say
to this day this guy's not human it'd be interesting if they ended up like testing
him or something like that he might have a bigger heart than everyone or i don't know bro
just yeah because it doesn't make sense he's way too big to be doing what he's doing yeah yeah
where does his i've asked adam reynolds this um but where do you think his growth is in his
game because he's already top one two three props like where does he grow because he's
one five broncos player of the years or something he's in origin yeah how does he get better yeah
that's that's so true bro um good point i'm not sure what's that because because yeah like i think
his standards are very high so like he never lets himself take any shortcuts um the way that he
takes care of his body on and off the field is elite you know what i mean so i guess for him
it's just always raising the the the bar every single year um but more so around his mentorship
on taking more boys with him that's a big one i think so i think like that's the true power that
he could have man because i throw it back to ren and i go um i feel like with his body shape he
could be scoring like a lot more tries and if you push him but well you know adam scores a lot of
tries for the warriors because he does that block shape out wide but he goes nah for us he's the one
that lays the line who sets up everyone else and i was like oh yeah that makes sense still four
points isn't it
yeah just his name is not next to yeah and he's never been a big person that wants all the
attention he just loves going about his business man and just flying under the radar but with him
bro being that big and producing the stats he's never gonna fly under the radar nah he's just a
good a bro he's amazing and he's a good human being too bro what's ezra like ezra yeah bro he's
a character man fuck i like it he's so cool just like his uh his aura around the players his aura
on and off the field he's a character man he's a character man he's a character man he's a character
man he's a character man he's a character man he's a character man he's a character man you know the way that he
he loves his fashion he expresses himself through his fashion we went through uh we went to a um
a mid-year ball we're told it's a black tie event oh he had shorts on no sneakers and ezra walks in
with shorts and like black black shoes i'm just like that's what's up yeah i don't want that
even our ceo was like that style yeah that style but who else can pull it off you know what i mean
apart from him or reesey walsh
if me and you
were trying to do that
everyone would be like
hey what's going on
you guys
I think
like me you
say Geordie
were in a phase
where we all started
vlogging around the same time
I think you guys
were ahead of the curve
where you're doing
foot pics
and stuff like that
and you got a lot of kickback
what was that experience like
because
I feel like
we see it so clearly
of American sports
Australian sports
the content over there
is so much sicker
than what we're doing over here
let's just bring it over here
because why can't we do that
what was that whole experience
like for you
bro it's
I look at the sports
and the athletes
now man
the content around it
and like
not gonna lie man
I'm jealous
because that's
the era that
we all wanted to be around
man like
how many times
have we been saying
why can't we
rock up to games
and wear what we want
just like the NBA do
NFL does
because again
that's your way
of expressing
who you are
you know what I mean
and
it's
I do miss it man
me and Geordie
say it all the time
like we
we're
an era too soon
because
the boys
now they've got
Timmy Cousins
at Bronx
who's doing amazing stuff
Logan Dodds
at Warriors
who's doing amazing stuff
around the players
we were doing it ourselves
we had to do it ourselves
bro
we had to
like walk ahead
put our cameras down
and then walk past
like nothing
like the camera wasn't even there
you know what I mean
you're half acting
producing
at the same time
and then editing yourself
where
these boys
kind of got it easy
you know what I mean
it's crazy bro
they've got the pros
doing it
for them
and they're flicking it to them
and then they post it bro
so
I'm a bit
envious and jealous of it
but at the same time
we could honestly say
that me
you
Geordie
helped create that wave
yeah for sure
that's the way that I see it bro
I'm like
man yeah we're
we got scrutinized
a lot about it
especially when we did
that drip season
when we were in COVID
right
that was sick
I like that
we were just like
rocking up to training
and wearing like
bro that's how I knew
who Jesse Arthurs was
I was like fuck he
who's this
can't he dress as cool
ended up being him
yeah bro
and like
again that was
because we were
locked up in a bubble
we couldn't really
we weren't allowed to go anywhere
like anyone else
but
we're like man
how can we bring some excitement
so we started dressing up
walking into training
having fun with it
and then
we got the one and spoon
and everyone slammed us for it
because we were
apparently
worried too much about our outfits
yeah
but
I look back on it
and I'm like
you know what
it wouldn't be
the media wouldn't be
where it is today
if we didn't start
those wave leaks
if we didn't start
creating those boundaries
and start knocking down
some walls
you know what I mean
and I think
I'm Denon
deserves like a lot of credit too
because he was like
the OG in the podcast space
and like
we copied it
like I copied him
for sure
I didn't think I was
going to go full league
I just wanted to do
business stuff
but it just kind of
worked out
and Fahid deserves
a lot of credit
big time man
big time bro
because he tried
like you did too bro
you tried to create
those
those happier stories
around what the players do
you know what I mean
instead of the
you know
the negative stories
that are always getting
slammed in the papers
and on TV
you guys were talking
about the good stories
that us players do
outside of the game
that's not marketed
you know what I mean
a big one for me
was probably Corey
because like
obviously you've known
him a lot longer than me
but you know
he's a good dude
he just made a couple mistakes
and then like
everything he'd done
he just came to get
like bagged for a day
so when we started vlogging
you're seen as like
dynamic shift
and people started to like him
because they actually
got to understand him bro
for sure
and I was like
that's
like interviewed
Izzy Folau in this room
a couple weeks ago
and that was someone
I always wanted to interview
because I was like
fuck Izzy Folau
even though he's
I think a year younger than us
I was like
fuck he's the man
and like
I don't have the same
religious beliefs as him
but I appreciated him
as a man
to stand in his values
for so strong
that he potentially
lost everything
but he understood
his truth as a man
so I thought
that was fucking cool about him
and all the messages
I've been getting
from that podcast
I was like
oh like he's different
than what I thought he was
yeah for sure
100%
and that's
I think
as a
like when you're
a spectator watching
right
you have
all these kids
idolize these people
but they got to understand
that we're only human beings
we're not taught
in high school
or we don't do
a college degree
before we become
a professional athlete
on what it's like
to be a role model
you know what I mean
we got to kind of
learn
as we go through life
so we do make mistakes
do you reckon
football players
should be role models
oh I
me personally
I do
yeah
, yeah
because it's not easy
to get to where they are
but at the same time
we got to be
less judgmental
on the boys
you know what I mean
because they're human beings
they can make mistakes
just like every other
human being can
but the
the difference is
when we make a mistake
it's everywhere
and everyone has
an opinion on it
you know what I mean
and it can affect
your mental state
but at the same time
you know what I mean
these boys are trying to learn
so I think
so I do see them
as big role models
when I was still playing
you know I tried to
educate the boys around
win, lose or draw
at a game
we always go and thank our fans
because they're paying
their cold hard cash
or hard earned cash
to show up for the boys
you know what I mean
and show their support
and they've stuck
whether we were getting
50 points
beaten by 50 points
they stayed till the end
so the least we can do
yeah we're hurting
is go around
and shake their hands
and show your appreciation
I see Reece Walsh do that
like I think
who pumped you recently
Titans
yeah
and I remember like
him being down
and like he looked
hurt
and then he got up
and just like
yeah
and I respected that
that stood out to me
yeah for sure bro
because that's the 1%
that we tend to forget
as athletes
regardless of the
the points or
how you finished
we still got to show
our respects to these guys
because we know
through COVID
our game isn't a game
without the spectators
man
so if they're not
filling up the seats
you know what I mean
it becomes a boring game
when we had no spectators
in that stadium
it sucked man
it sucked
yeah the old glorified
a post session
oh bro
not the fake ambience
in the sound
but yeah 100%
like without
our spectators
there is no rugby league
out there man
yeah so true eh
I feel like we do
start to take it for granted
because I look at crowds now
like Brookie's always
filled up
Mount Smart's always
filled up
like I think the game's
heading in the right direction
bro it's pretty exciting
yeah
100%
the growth of the game
in terms of us being
Polynesian boys
and predominantly
we've got
I don't know what the
percentage breakdown
of NRL players now
what's it like being
seeing that
seeing that type of growth
within the game
yeah bro
it's a beautiful thing man
I think
you know
we
as Pacific Islanders
we've always
sport has always been
something that we understood
you know what I mean
and when we come from
cultural backgrounds
where we're always
being told to
be humble
and be respectful
it actually
can work in a negative form
in terms of us
chasing our dreams
if it's not sport
you know what I mean
for sure
so sport's always been
an avenue for us
to
feed our family
you know
to make a living
out of ourselves
so
to see it growing
it's amazing
but I get more pride
out of seeing
our Pacifica youth
following their dreams
outside of sport
man
I'm working in high schools
now
I've been working
with the Broncos
with our Pacifica
multicultural leadership
program
and seeing these kids
breaking down the barriers
that we never did
and going
you know what
I actually just want to be
a doctor
I actually just want to be
a lawyer
but my parents
pushed me into sports
because that's our avenue
and that's always been
Pacific culture
yeah but you're 6 foot 4
100%
you know what I mean
some just want to be
a singer man
and a lot of us
have amazing voices
a lot of Cook Islanders
have amazing voices
but seeing the growth
within Pacific culture
as a dynamic
and everything
I think it's a big thing
I think it's a big thing
it's beautiful bro
beautiful
and I'm all for it
one thing I want to talk about
with Izzy was
we felt like
two parts
money
and management
so player management
because like you said
the great part about
being a Pacific Islander
is you're humble
but then sometimes
you don't feel like
you belong
in certain rooms
in certain rooms
that I talk about
business
when guys are in suits
when there's contracts
getting exchanged
when we don't understand
contracts
when we don't understand
lawyers
I think that's going to be
the next evolution
of
like you talked about
being business savvy
and being a player now
I think there's guys
that are just going to
break that down so much
so the next guy's going to
I think Artie's probably
the guy
who should lead it
because he cares about it enough
he's
like you know
more on a personal level
than me
but like I watch from afar
man what he does
and the barriers
that he's already
been breaking down
that's a role model
you know what I mean
that's a role model
when you talk about
role models
like he's a
he epitomizes it
from a player's point of view
from a person
you know
as a human being
and then also
from a business
point of view
in terms of monetizing
your personal branding
you know what I mean
he's done it all
I think two things
I like about
one thing I like about
both you boys
is like being
a good partner
and husband first
and like
even though playing
for the Broncos
and Captain Em is
fucking sick
and Kiwis
blah blah blah
and playing for the All Blacks
is like the dream
but he
like
and he's a man of faith too
he goes
faith, family
that's what they put first
and that's their
foundation
of everything else
that is built
and someone who's
predominantly been single
most of his life
like I look at that
I'm like fuck that's cool
you know what I mean
100%
well I guess
a cool message
for anyone
that's listening to this
or the youth
coming through
is like
in order for you
to be the best version
of yourself
you've got to understand
what's your values
who you are as a person
how does
like someone
who's never
understood like
the values factor before
like how do they do that
yeah
well for me
it was like
because I didn't know
what values were
like
I got taught
to be always
respectful and humble
and empathetic
of everyone else
but I didn't know
that was values
you know what I mean
so I guess
you need to take time
out to yourself
and distance yourself
from everyone
and connect with
oneself
whether it means
going out to nature
whether it means
you know
sitting down
reading a book
or distancing yourself
from social media
and all that
you need to connect
and jot down
what makes you happy
and you know
how I came up
with mine
was every time
I walk out my house
how am I going to
represent myself
and my family
you know what I mean
so that
whenever I leave
someone's presence
are they going to say
these three things
about me
and if they do
then I'm doing my job
if they're not
then man
I need to reshuffle
what my values are
me and Quaid
were talking about you
the other day
and I was like
fuck it's mad
hanging around
Alexi
he's just got the best
energy
he literally said
when you leave
you feel better
thank you
that's great
that gave me goosebumps
remember when I was saying
like I try and live
a bit of yogi
within myself
man I just said that
about him
and you guys saying
that about me
that's crazy
thank you G
that was sick bro
straight into a coffee
then back talking
about girls with Quaid
but that's what
for me bro
that gives me purpose
you know what I mean
because it's about me
trying to give back
to others
and if it means
just being good energy
man
that's
that's giving back
I feel like
like
people say certain stuff
about me
and they're like
oh that's just the way
I feel like that's you
because I remember
when we were like
under 20s
and like
I remember you guys
beating us in the semifinals
I remember how
rattled while I was
and me and you
were in
getting drug tested
straight after
that's right
you're always super polite
and like
then we've seen you after
and I remember you being
at the Titans game
but you had Warriors kid on
but you've always been
that type of guy
maybe that's just your gift bro
yeah thank you bro
I think bro
honestly it's my upbringing
like my
my upbringing
my upbringing
back in Beach Haven
is like
the greatest gift
that could have ever
blessed me man
you know what I mean
like I come from
a rough neighborhood
we were surrounded by
gang
drugs
alcohol
you know
all that
but it helped define
who I was bro
it never ever let
my circumstances
or my surroundings
dictate who I was
as a person
we were always taught
to be respectful
be humble
never forget
where you come from
alright
and always put others
first man
and
that was drilled into us
from a young age
we come from a big family
so like
we understand that
sharing is in our nature
you know what I mean
we're not a single child
like Corey Norman bro
that just
expects everything
to come to them man
like
you gotta understand that
you know
you gotta help each other
you gotta
be the best for each other
you gotta be a support person
for someone
and I always
pride myself on that
never
ever let
a title
or
the person who I was
being
a public figure
put me above
anyone else
because
we're all human beings
and
I still pride myself
to that today bro
like we're all equal man
and
doesn't matter if I got more
exciting stories than you bro
like you still got a value
in this world
and
you still got an essence
and a presence
in this world bro
so
I'm no different to anyone else
yeah everyone's got a gift
and we can learn from everyone too
oh
hell yeah man
that's the way you gotta see it bro
for sure
yeah
like attracts like
energy attracts energy bro
and
if you can be a positive role model
for people out there
you never know what they're going through
bro
the world we live in is hard bro
you know what I mean
and
and the cost of living is hard bro
so
if you're that person
that makes someone happy man
you're doing something amazing
yeah
I find that with
like my content
like there's times I feel like
a little bit
like lost
where I'm like fuck
like why am I even doing this
and you know
because it takes a lot of time
effort energy
and
you put yourself out there
and you're gonna get criticized
and like fuck
people are bagging you out
but then every time
I'm just about to quit
someone will DM me like
oh that
that tiny piece of content
changed
how I was feeling about my day
or all my purpose in life
so
nah it's been cool
and it's weird
when you put it like that
and it's like
it makes me
think about myself a little bit
more and more thoughtfully bro
like you know
when you walk outside
and you're like
what do I
what do I want my
thing to be today
or when I come back home
how I represent my family
like I don't really think like that
but it's good
it's good to hear you
think like that
because it makes me think like that now
yeah bro
for sure man
and like
you gotta give yourself credit man
like
you change the dynamic
in terms of
footy players
correlation
with business right
you're one of the first to do it
so like
I gotta commend you for that
because
that helped open my eyes
to possibilities
I can create
outside of footy
and also Jordan's eyes as well
so
like you
paved the way
for a lot of us bro
I guess one thing that you
like
that you can learn about
and you just said it man
is just always think of your values
understand
what's your three core values
because
it doesn't matter
where you go
or what you do
there's gonna be haters out there
there's gonna be
people
that have their opinions over you
good
bad
or whatever
but if you're living by your standards
if you're living by your three core values
it doesn't matter what they say
it doesn't matter what you do
because
at the end of the day
you're being true to who you are
and
like attracts like
so if you keep
continue doing what you're doing
your circle
may get smaller
it will get smaller actually
but the ones that are gonna be around you
are genuine people that
believe in you
and
you're gonna be
and
you're gonna be
support what you do
they're not just looking for that clout
I've done this
online seminar one time
and it was about values
and they said
the quickest way to determine your values
is where you spend your most time
and where you spend your most money
so they go
even look for your credit card
so like
if you're like say
I want to be healthy
but your credit card's saying
KFC
McDonald's
yeah partying
you're going out partying
if you're spending your time and money there
that's not where your true values are
your true values might be at that time
having fun
and doing it
but don't expect
the results
if you're moving in that direction
hard out bro
so I was like
oh that's an interesting way
it's an easy way to figure it out
it is an easy way to figure it out bro
yeah
and I guess another
key message around values
and that
if you don't know your values
that's fine
you know what I mean
there's not a time where
or a time stop
where you're like
you need to be 18
and have to nail all these things man
like it might come on later on
you know what I mean
my purpose in life
I didn't know
what it was
until I got older and wiser
you know what I mean
so
don't be disheartened on yourself
if you don't know who you are
or what your identity is
or your value shit bro
it's okay to change too eh
because I remember when Haynes
he was like
flipping careers
and everyone was like
oh he's just a dreamer
nothing wrong with being a dreamer
because when I thought
when I left football
and we all picked up cameras
around the same time
and I love photography
I was like
fuck
I just want to go
make $10,000 a month
and go do some wedding photography
or some shit like that
shoot on auto
yeah
because that's what like
basically what Jordy's doing now
like that was my dream
to start off
and then I started making videos
and vlogs
and then we moved into clothing
and I was like
I'd rather just pay someone to do it
but I like the end product of
being in content
and seeing an idea
get to that point
but I don't really
want to be the one doing it
because of fucking
a lot of pressure
a lot of time
100% bro
like shooting weddings bro
imagine
I don't know
like credit to Jordy
and what he does man
like he just got back from Paris
shooting content
with Patty Mills
like he was over in Miami
like I've always been
a big believer of him bro
and
because he
I remember one thing
and like
I've always enjoyed reading
and I love words
in every format
like listening to him
reading and blah blah blah
and he was one of the first guys
that ever
he started writing blogs
yeah
yeah and he
back in the day
he gave you a big rap in there
because you supported him
through his knees
but he's always been like
a little bit forward thinking
as well
hard bro
like he's
yeah he's always been
the head of the game
but again like
he's always had a strong presence
about who he is
and what he stands for
you know what I mean
he's not
he's never been
as we used to say
a sheep
that just follows
you know what I mean
he likes to go against the grain bro
and create those pathways
and
he's stuck at it man
like
I've seen it first hand
the hard work that he's done
and put into it
and the sleepless nights bro
like he was doing
like
full days
where he wouldn't sleep man
but then he's still being
a great dad
and a great partner
for Jess
you know what I mean
it's hard work bro
but
everyone looks at it
and goes
how good is Jordy
going to the Olympics
and that
but you forget
the hard process
it's like
starting a business man
you forget the hard process
that everyone's slogged out
to get to where they are bro
so I'm proud of him man
I've always been
a big believer
of supporting your mates
and what they do bro
and gassing them up
because they deserve it bro
was it hard when you guys
went into two separate gyms
nah
nah
easy
nah bro
easy
like see like
yeah everyone's like
oh is it weird
that like Jordy's doing a gym
I'm like
bro
at the end of the day right
he's giving back to his community
I'm giving back to my community
if we're helping more people
yeah
that's
that's
benefiting everyone bro
yeah yeah for sure
you know what I mean
so it's not me against him
at all
no way
I want to see his gym
do like
be very successful
I guess it'd be like
me and Quade
starting clothes eh
100% bro
it's the same thing
it's the same shit eh
it's the same thing bro
like it's not
like your merch
against his merch man
it's just like
everyone's got their own way
of expressing
everyone's got their own way
of trying to give back
to the community man
and
I'm never against my mates bro
I want to see everyone win
what's the hardest part
about being in business
not knowing what you're doing bro
you know what I mean
not knowing what you're doing bro
oh man
do you reckon that's a blessing
in disguise
because I think if I knew
everything that I'd gone through
right now
and someone told me this
at the start of the journey
I'm not too sure
if I would have taken it eh
bro 100%
I definitely see it as a blessing
ignorance is bliss
yeah bro
for far man
like I didn't know
what I was jumping into
yeah
I just
I understood people
I seen an opportunity
and me and Jerry were like
you know what
what do we have to lose
we had good men
mentors around us
and I feel like
if you've got that support
around you
in terms of
like CEOs
great lawyers
great finance advisors
around you
you really can't lose bro
being successful
as you will know this too
is like
understanding that
not everything's
perfect bro
it's not gonna go smoothly
it's about
learning from those
and then just continue to
swallow that ego pill
and just be like
you know what
we stuffed up
let's keep moving forward
learn from it bro
so
I always say
entrepreneurship's like swimming
like there's days
where you're floating
on top of the water
sunset in your face
and other days
you feel like drowning
but you love the water
just enough to jump back
in the next day
yeah for sure
it's a beautiful thing G
and I think that's life
in itself
everyone wants to be
an entrepreneur
but no one's willing
to put in those hard hours
they want to see the success
but they don't want to
come through the trenches
to get there bro
you know what I mean
it's like skipping a pre-season
and rocking up round one
bro 100%
100%
like
I'll keep it real man
like there's been
I mean
my gym's
been very good
for the last two years
we've been operating
for two years man
I've barely taken
a cent out of it
you know what I mean
everyone's like bro
you live this good life man
you must be on a good pay packet
bro there's times
where like
my family is struggling
in terms of like
am I going to keep
this roof over my head
you know what I mean
but we keep going bro
we keep learning
because
I know
you keep doing
what you're doing
you stay true to your values
and
you never give up bro
the fruits are going to fall
from the
the
the
the
the tree
eventually
and the
the manifestation
that I put in
what my life is
for my family
it's going to come
but I'm not looking
for it tomorrow
I know it's a long game
how do you learn
about network
because I feel like
you're very early on it
because when we first
come through like
networking and
doing that stuff
was frowned upon
or like social media
was frowned upon
I feel like you're
a bit ahead of the game
in that sense
who'd you learn that from
we did a business course
when we were
coming through the ranks
it was myself
Jordan Kahu
Jack Rees
Matt Gillette
like a lot of the younger boys
coming through
and she taught us
the power of
personal branding
and then
as
when she said that
I started watching
Corey Parker
Darren Lockyer
Sammy Thaide
when we went to
big events
like say
season launch
end of the year
presentations
and that
us boys
poly boys
used to stick together
in the corner
you know what I mean
and mingle and that
and we never ever
seen those blokes
because they were
networking
and so
I
I sat down with those
predominantly
Corey Parker
I sat down with him
and I was like
bro what do you do
like in these events
and he goes
man I go out
and meet people
I was like
how do you know
how to make small talk
with someone you don't know
and so he
tucked me under the wing
and took me around
the next event
and I just watched
and I listened
I was a sponge bro
how do you make
small talk of
because I hate
what he said to me
right
he said
as a Brisbane Broncos
player
all these people
in the room
are there
because they want
to meet you
they love
you as a player
and what you do
out on the field
so you being nervous
like they're more
nervous to meet you
than you are them
so if you
address that elephant
in the room
like
you should be
asking them the questions
because they just
want to spill everything
and those people
that are predominantly
in that room
are very successful people
especially at the Broncos
our network is huge
and so like
he'll go in there
he'll introduce themselves
and they'll
always start off
like I'm a huge fan
there's your foot in the door
so then you ask
what do you do
for business
what's your
business that you run
and then they start
talking about their business
and while you're
talking about it
you start to think
alright
how they operate
the business
is exactly as players
how we operate
when we turn up to work
every single day
there's standards
right
there's a cultural aspect
but there's also
a standard
from a physical
and a team
point of view
and so
I always try to
develop good relationships
with everyone
that I met
because you never know
later on down the track
when you might need them
like you're meeting
builders
you're meeting people
that
you know
are into stocks
people that
are real estate
agents and stuff
and so
if you
leave a good impression
on them
when you reach out
to them
what are they going to do
they're going to help you
because you showed them
the respect from the start
so creating
those relationships
like I didn't go into
always thinking
what can I get from them
yeah it's a big one eh
yeah
I didn't go into that
I was just like
who can I meet
that's going to be cool
you know what I mean
so yeah
I just pride myself
on going out there
meeting people
understanding what they do
and their love for sport
and all that stuff
and then later on
down that track
constantly touching base
with them
here and there
it doesn't have to be
every week
it might be once
twice a month
checking in
how's it going
because you always get a card
you know what I mean
here's my card
if ever you need anything
give me a call
and so just
keeping those relationships
close bro
a small message of like
hey bro
hope you're doing well
just want to touch base
haven't spoken to you in a while
can go a long way bro
oh bro that's huge
because I think
I want people to do it to me
yeah
and I'm like
I'm like
and I understand networking
a little bit
and I understand
like psychology
and shit like that
basic psychology
but like I feel
whenever people do that to me
I always like
oh I want to help this person
like yeah
I don't know where they are
in life and now
but I'll go out of my way
to help that person
who puts in effort
yeah
because that's
right as human beings
we look for validation
right in life
and so if someone's
sending you a message
or email
whatever it may be
just being genuine
like
it makes you feel good
right
so you're like
bro
I want to help good people
right
this guy's a genuine dude
man he's checking in on me
when he didn't have to
and I haven't spoken to him
in months
I'm like bro
if he calls me
and he needs something
I'm there
I'm going to do that for him
wow that's
yeah bro
I think even now
that's like
there wouldn't be many players
doing that
nah
nah
and that's understandable
because you're at a
a social status
yeah
so like
you're getting all these people
wanting your time
that
it's hard to justify
who's the genuine ones
okay
here's a good question
say you are
a response
right now
you want to start networking
how would you do it
yeah
well exactly
like I said
any
events that
we're at
like I'm going out of my way
to introduce myself
even though
everyone in the world
knows who he is
I'm introducing myself
like
no one's heard of me
you know what I mean
and then I'm showing
interest in them
because
it's not about you
you know what I mean
because they already know you
everyone knows you bro
but when you show
genuine interest
in someone else
it gives off
that aura
like man
this guy
cares about me
even though he's
the pinnacle
he's like the Tom Brady
of rugby league
you know what I mean
he's showing interest
in my work
so that shows a lot
about who you are
as a person
now he's
Reece Walsh
has got the biggest
following in rugby league
people in England
know who the Brisbane Broncos
are because of
Reece Walsh
but they love soccer
you know what I mean
so this guy
can seriously
monetize
the whole world
bro
through his network
but it's
literally
bringing yourself down
and going
you know what
I'm going to go out there
and introduce myself
like I'm no one
bro it will get you
along places man
and that
that actually
helped me
transition out of the game
yeah
that makes sense
because those
people that
were always there for me
as Alex Glenn
the Brisbane Broncos player
are still there for me
as Alex Glenn
that's not the
professional athlete
that's on TV
you know what I mean
this is just a random
train of thought
and I was just thinking
about this
because we've got
like a mutual friend
back in the day
but like the amount
of times
I see football players
put amount of
let's just call it
marketing
into pursuing girls
or getting girls
interested in them
if they position
that type of energy
and just move it
towards networking
or business
it's basically
the same game
isn't it bro
yeah
exact same game
like whereas
I feel like
if you're chasing girls
it's easier for the boys
because they're on TV
if you're good looking
you get
the boys get haircuts
every week
you know what I mean
so they're taking pride
in how they look
it's marketing
that's marketing
it's the exact same thing
with business bro
you know what I mean
you gotta correlate it
and just be like
alright
my personal brand
okay
if I'm good off the field
I'm not in the papers
for the negative stories
businesses wanna work with you
for sure
you know what I mean
and that's
and I think at Recy too
like him being a dad
and his daughter being
very cute man
all that sort of stuff
for sure
I listened to
one one time
where Magic Johnson
back in the 80s
he was going like
he was playing basketball
and he looked around
all the floor seats
and he went to the
Lakers management
and he goes like
who are all these people
and then basically
after that
he goes
get the 10 most successful
people
I wanna take him out
for dinner
and this is like
in the 80s
so when I think about
Reece Walsh now
and when I ask you that question
this is the one
that comes to my mind
who's the 10 big dogs
like in the marketing department
at the Broncos
let me organise a dinner
I'll take him out
for snitties
and you'll spend
300 bucks on schnitzels
and a few beers
but imagine a network
from that bro
short investment
and a long term
and you get them all together
you know what I mean
absolutely bro
like that's a smart way
to think of it
like if you're a
if any of the boys
are watching this
that's what they should
be doing bro
you know what I mean
golf
golf's a big one bro
yeah bro
and it's the exact same
with sponsorship teams
you know what I mean
Brisbane Broncos
is the biggest sporting brand
in the country
are they
yeah
biggest brand
in the country bro
so you think
of all the brands
like Asics
Kia
like all these guys right
big global brands
the time that you get
to spend with them
on these sponsorships
can look after you
long term
you know what I mean
so like
like you were saying
inviting them to come out
to dinner
shouting them
it's something small
for the boys
but it could turn into
a huge avenue for yourself
post footy
you know what I mean
fuck yeah
that's the cool thing
about it man
that's what I love about it
bro
yeah
as a player
I think the best part
right
is
the impact that you can have
on someone else's life
for something small
and what I mean by that
is like
you see these guys
kids always asking for a photo
and that
it takes you two seconds
to take a photo
that kid will remember
that memory
for the rest of his life
I remember my first
NRL players
I took photos with
Henry Farfili
yeah
he's a man
cut the coconut
bro
and he had
I remember this so clearly bro
but he had like
on a baby blue
zipper hoodie
and it had Farfili
embroidered across the front
right
yeah
and I was like
fuck he's cool
see
I remember that so clearly
you remember that
and that's as a player
that's the mentality
that you gotta have man
there can be days
where you're tired
exhausted
you know
hating the world
because of all this
negative media going on
and that
but at the end of the day man
the time that you
give to these people
whether it's five minutes
whether it's ten minutes
they're gonna remember it
for life
so going back to my values
what are they gonna say
about you
is it your three core values
if not
then you gotta reshuffle it bro
yeah that's huge eh
and I used to say this
to the boys man
like if you spend like
ten minutes in a day
instead of like
flicking through your DM
just going like
ha ha ha ha ha
down all the comments
like I remember
guys I look up to
like someone like Gary V
who's liked my comments
and I've got to DM him
and get to know him
a little bit
over the years
but fuck I like
like 35
and still get excited
about that shit
yeah
100 bro
nah it is cool
it is cool man
it is cool
when you see people's
excitement bro
like even me
watching from afar now
you see Steph Curry
do the things that he does
with fans
oh he does it the best
he's the man
but then even Shaq
you know Shaq goes to shops
and he buys kids bikes
and all that stuff
I
I get a massive
high off that bro
you know what I mean
because
that's the greatest gift
that you can give anyone
when you're in a
when you're in a
spotlight like that
you know what I mean
giving
kids the time
or your presence
or even
when you see the players
handing out boots bro
I kind of miss that
you know what I mean
I miss
having that power to do it
because you always look excited
when you run out on some court
bro it's the best feeling
it's the best feeling
I don't know why I said that
it makes sense
yeah
like you think
I say it to the fans
all the time
I'm grateful that
I got to play
at Suncorp
like more than anyone else
because it is the greatest
stadium in the world bro
bro huge
and like I played
at Old Trafford
I played
you know
at very iconic
stadiums in the world
and nothing
ever compares to
Suncorp bro
it is the greatest feeling
in the world
so as a
ex-player
you do miss that
yeah
Willie Mason said it
the best bro
we don't miss
playing footy
you miss the adrenaline rush
that it gives you
and that feeling
when you run out
or you win the game
you know what I mean
that 20 minutes
when you're celebrating
and singing the song
that's the feeling you miss
yeah
I don't know
if that makes so much sense
at home bro
yeah for sure
that is so true
yeah
making 40 tackles
oh bro
waking up the next morning
trying to jump out of bed
you're like
oh
and then you got to get up
and go running again
you don't miss that
but you miss that adrenaline rush
that it gives you
when it's game day
and you're running out there
random question
do you think Gordon Tellis
is good for the Broncos
because I feel like
he says a lot online
like I
like
I used to be a New South Wales fan
and obviously
I switched over to Queensland
because all my mates are Queenslanders
and just better people
nicer people
my move Kiwis
but then he's just always
online saying some wild shit
about you boys
in my mind
I don't think
and I reckon
I say this about the Parramatta
old boys too
I don't think they want
the new crew to be
as successful
because it takes away
from their legacy
yeah true
I never thought about it bro
I reckon Parramatta
I reckon Parramatta old heads
they're all like that
yeah yeah yeah
me and Corey used to say it
all the time
really
but like
I know he's
paid to be outspoken
and that's what keeps him
in media
but like
do you think he's good
for the Broncos
right me personally
if I look at
the Broncos
and back rowers
because I was a back rower
Gordie's always high up in there
so like whenever I see him
doesn't matter what he says
or anything
I always give him
massive respects
because he paved the way
for me
you know what I mean
yeah yeah yeah
he's an old head
that just was tough
as hell bro
so like if
as a club man
if you're getting a legend
like that
coming into the club
man I think
it's huge
regardless of what he says
everyone like
we were saying before
everyone's got their own opinion
they've got the freedom
of speech bro
whether he's being paid
to do it or not
I don't know but
do you reckon there's a bias
towards like protecting
his mate Kivy
because I'm sure
if we jumped the line
and people were talking shit
about our mates
we'd lean into that bias
too
yeah
that's what we used to do
with Normie right
maybe that's just what it is
and I'm probably reading
too much into it
because I'm mates with Ren
and I see him bagging Ren
I'm like fuck
he hasn't even played
yeah 100% bro
and that's
that's the sad thing
about our sport
is like
when it's not going their way
you know what I mean
everyone's quick to throw them
to the sharks
but when they're winning bro
everyone's on the horse
and they're on the wagon
they're praising them
frick you can walk around
the city
and get everything for free
because they're like
how good is this
but that's
that's the side of sport
that people don't understand bro
it is hard
I reckon the younger generation
now
say someone like Reesey
and that
they
I think
they understand
people's stature
within the game
within the past
but I think they care more
about how they treat them now
than what they've actually done
true
is that
because when we come through
it's like
if he played 250 games
you were the man
we just listened to you
now I think
they're a different generation now
they don't care
how many games you played
like you can be
an old head
who glorifies the past
the shit on the future
or you can be an OG
who takes his lessons
from the past
and teach them
because I reckon
I reckon
and just in my
they'll respect you more
than someone like him
yeah
just my opinion
that's a fair point
looking at it man
because I don't
because I don't think
they care anymore
how many games you've played
because massages
see you later
yeah 100%
yeah hard
hard pulling rank on those
yeah that's so true man
like I
just you saying that bro
I think about it right
so
whenever I walk into the club
and I go see the boys
and that
I'm not
demanding their respect
you know what I mean
I'm just like
treating it like
I'm a fan bro
you know what I mean
so I'm going in there
what's up boys
like how's it going
talking about footy
and all that stuff
but at the end of the day
like I'm not going in there
going like
I'm previous captain
I'll cap
you know
fourth highest cap
doesn't matter
it doesn't matter to me
at the end of the day
it's cool stats to have
but it doesn't dictate
who you are as a person bro
you know what I mean
yeah
it's funny
because you talk about that
and I brought up Gordie
just kind of where my mind went
yeah
yeah
but yeah
it's the same thing
because I look at
all their posts
and they're quick to turn
and they're happy
to speak their mind
which I love bro
100% man
100%
and that's how
I kind of went
through my career
it was like
towards the back end
of my career
it was like
I don't need to impress anyone
I got to defend my players
whether it's going to
blow up in the papers
negatively or not
being true to my values man
and like Milford
used to get slammed
all the time
but I'll go and defend him
every day of the week bro
because that guy
I knew he was genuine
as hell
and he would always give
his best out there
sometimes it wasn't
to the standards
that everyone wanted
or the million dollar
pay packet
that he was getting paid to
but he's just human being bro
you know what I mean
so yeah bro
at the end of the day man
speaking truthful
again comes back
to your values
if you're living by it
doesn't matter
what anyone else sees
and also just going to
let everyone be them
hey
let them be them bro
I'm throwing out
some judgy comments
on this podcast
but that's just who they are
100% bro
100% man
it's a beautiful thing G
Do you reckon
the Broncos have got
a window on their
premiership
because I look at
their team now
Reynolds
probably a year
year or two off retiring
everyone within the team
is better
so pay packets
it's just one of those things
and boys are going to
start looking after themselves
which they should
do you think they've got
a window on their
premiership
I look at their team
like I think
if the window
for a premiership
it's now
you know what I mean
like it's
that's what I think too
the next two years
yeah
because
I'm not saying that
we don't know what's ahead
or the youngsters
coming through
is there going to be
another pain
hassle
Paddy Carrigan
than that
but I think
our best chance
with the calibre
of the players
that we've got
in our roster man
like it's the next
two years
you know what I mean
if it doesn't happen
then
like to say
I know Simon Scanlon
he's our recruiting
offer
he's amazing
at what he does
but I haven't seen
what's coming through
so it's hard for me
to say
you know what
the next 10 years
is us
where does
where does
the Broncos
development come from
because I look at
everyone knows
Penrose Nursery
Melbourne
they just grab
people from anywhere
pull them into the system
like where do the
Broncos players come from
a lot of country boys man
we've got a lot of
country boys
Cyril Connell
who was
the OG in terms of
recruitment
he was the one
that was
him and Wayne Bennett
together
were just the
masterminds man
and they just love
country boys
they love country boys
they're just tough
they're just tough
don't complain
bro they don't
complain
they get in there
they go hard
they didn't expect
any sympathy for them
they get banged up
or they got a cut
they just get up
and keep going bro
you know what I mean
and I think it comes
from their nature
of their upbringing too
makes sense
their nature
of their upbringing
a lot of them
had to travel
3-4 hours
to go play footy
or let alone train
and that was normal
for them
whereas we're training
if we're going to train
and we're in traffic
we're blowing up
20 minutes
you know what I mean
so their nature
they develop
resilience
from a young
young age bro
I reckon
and coming from
a lot of country boys
have farms
their dads
that's all they knew bro
it's just been tough
getting up there
and you actually develop
like way more
like strength
being like a farmer
like you say
like we do weights now
we'll be 45 minutes
in a day
but if they're carrying
something around
the whole day
you just develop
more strength
don't you
100% bro
and it just naturally
comes bro
like you look at
farmers bro
you don't have to worry
how big he is man
you know he's going
to ragdoll you
you challenge him
in an arm wrestle bro
you know he's going to
they always got big
forearms eh
huge man
they're undercover bro
they're undercover
but yeah predominantly
especially back in the day
a lot of country boys
were made the line up
of what the Brisbane
Broncos are
I look at the club
now
I call that
Lockyer aroma
like yeah
that makes sense eh
from Toowoomba
and all that stuff bro
you know what I mean
like all these boys
they're all country boys
man
and that's why
they were tough
as
as nails bro
they just
they understood
hard work
they'd never relied
on talent bro
they were just
hard workers man
and from
a coach's point of view
like Wayne
epitomized that
you could have
all the talent
in the world
but hard work
will always outwork
talent
you know what I mean
and I think that's
the philosophy
down that storm
I think I've seen
on social media
Andrew Johns
asked Billy Slater
if you weren't
coached on the
Bellamy
would you be the
Billy Slater
that everyone's seen
he goes absolutely
not
because his
philosophy was
hard work
will always
beat talent
scary
yeah bro
I look at the
Broncos side
and probably like
their backline
and probably more so
last year
is like
bro they're
good looking dudes
bro you know what I mean
you know what I mean
and like
and the reason
why I say this
is like
how do you get them
to not get caught up
in the lights
like even Ren
he's an old
old dude
and he's a good
looking guy
but how do you
not get caught up
in the lights
when you play
at Suncorp
when you're all
good looking dudes
and you're all
getting along
pretty well
when you're
basically
I wouldn't say
like run
Brisbane and
Gold Coast
beautiful women
everywhere
how do you not
get caught up
in that bro
you just let them
go
no I think
the boys
keep a tab on it
the banter
comes through
you know what I
mean
so like
you always
get humbled
whether you
walk in
I remember
walking in
through the
doors
if you had a
haircut
all the boys
are into you
doesn't matter
if it looked
good or bad
bro
you know
they'll humble
you real quick
you know what I
mean
go to the
barber's
just a four
on the side
so it doesn't
look too
bad
like you'll
get a fade
bro
and you feel
mad
but you
always knew
because the
boys are
coming at
you or
mocking you
and that
like you're
doing something
right
you know what
I mean
and that's
why I love
the banter
with my
boys
because they
will always
humble you
doesn't matter
where you
are
and I
think
that's the
culture at
our club
bro
our boys
will always
never let
you get a
big head
you know
what I
mean
they'll bring
you down
to earth
real quick
it's the one
club where
it would be
the hardest
to do
if you look
at social
media
right
I think
our
following
across all
platforms
is
over 600k
it's huge
huge
it is a
cool brand
it looks
cool
the colours
are cool
yeah 100%
and like
we've got
the biggest
TV ratings
we've always
had
everyone's like
why do you
get Friday
night games
541
541
right
and then
we've got
like all
our followings
on Facebook
YouTube
all that stuff
right
they all
add up
so
the exposure
from a
player's
point of
view
like you're
getting more
exposure
than every
other club
especially
those teams
in Sydney
you know
what I
mean
people don't
care if
you're a
footy player
down there
you know
you come to
Broncos
everyone knows
who a
Broncos
player is
so yeah
it can get
to your
head
but I
think the
culture at
our club
you get
humbled
real quick
you're never
above the
team
ever
and
it's
not like
you're the
first successful
Broncos
team ever
you guys
have always
been successful
100%
get back
in line
but I
think the
biggest
like
I think
Reecey
Walsh
like his
status
has been
miles above
anyone that's
ever been
in rugby
league
there's
times where
the club
have to get
his own
security
for places
you know
what I
mean
because he's
like the
Sonny Bill
in our eyes
you know
what I
mean
like when
I went on
a world
cup tour
with the
Kiwis
with Sonny
Bill
bro
I've never
ever seen
no matter
where we
went
whether it
was in
France
Spain
or England
every time
we're at
a hotel
there was
the crowd
hanging
outside
just to
meet
Sonny
Bill
that's
like
superstar
status
you know
what I
mean
and I
think
this is
the first
time
our
clubs
had
someone
like
that
status
with
Reece
Walsh
come into
the game
so
the
clubs
had to
learn a
lot
the last
two
years
you know
what I
mean
Reecey
didn't
ask for
it
but
when you
get a
good looking
fella like
him
tan skin
green eyes
and is
killing it
I think
his style
of football
is so
attractive
to watch
you know
what I
mean
it's
like
fun
to watch
bro
the big
dives
Larry Boots
it's
entertaining
and our
sport is
an
entertainment
sport
so what
he does
on the
game
is amazing
for him
I know
he's still
very young
man
I gotta
commend
his
resilience
in terms
of how
he keeps
picking
himself
up
I
mean
every
single
day
because
that
can
drain
your
energy
systems
bro
do
you
know
it's
weird
bro
I
seen
him
getting
a line
break
against
Newcastle
with the
Warriors
but
he's
played so
well at
the
Broncos
I
forgot
he
played
at
the
Warriors
his
impact
over
the
two
years
has
been
so
huge
I
forgot
he was
there
for a
year
it's
funny
when he
came
as a
rookie
to our
club
he was
training
more fast
than that
when you
go to
your
Christmas
parties
you get
the
rookie
to be
Santa
he was
our
Santa
his
first
year
so
my
kids
were
getting
presents
of
him
dressed
up
as
Santa
and
now
my
daughter
absolutely
loves
him
that's
you
as a
baby
it's
kind
of
cool
to
see
him
grow
into
the
athlete
that
he
is
but
also
he's
a
father
and as
a
person
bro
it's
cool
to be
a part
of
that
journey
man
I always
tell the
story
bro
we're
at
PT's
for
New
Year's
Eve
and
Reece
he
rocked
up
because
Normie
knows
his
family
pretty
well
and
I
remember
like
say
five
years
ago
with
YKTR
we're
like
I want
to
sponsor
some
high
school
kids
so
just
in
case
they
come
through
we've
been
with
them
from
the
start
and
the
first
person
Normie
said
was
actually
Reece
he
goes
oh
like
one
of
my
family
friends
he's
a
gun
plays
for
Narang
he'll
play
for
the
Bronx
and
that
good
looking
dude
and
I
didn't
know
who
he
was
at
the
time
and
I
met
him
at
PT's
for
New
Year's
and
we were
just
having
a few
beers
and
I
go
fuck
Normie
said
you're
next
up
I
love
that
confidence
bro
you know
what I
mean
manifestation
he's
always
had
that
bro
and
yeah
that's
unreal
and
Jordan
Rickey
was
there
he
just
got
heaps
of
confidence
we're
your
hater
man
that's
the
thing
right
our
best
mates
are
always
gonna
humble
us
and
that's
what I
love
about
banter
bro
fuck
couple
of
good
looking
cats
there
man
oh
100%
bro
remember
the top
100
that came
out
it was
like
our
top
five
the top
five
there was
three
broncos
players
in
there
yeah
it was
Herbie
or
Herbie
won it
yeah
and
there was
Rickey
and
Reesy
but
then
you
got
Paddy
like
bro
I
was
just
like
yo
that's
what's
up
Paddy's
got
that
country
Queensland
cowboy
swag
about
him
he's
huge
he's
a lot
thicker
than I
thought
he'd
be
like
you
know
when
they
turn
side
on
I
was
like
no
wonder
he makes
so many
yards
because
if you
shot
him
up
top
he's
still
going
to
move
forward
100%
they're
big
boys
even
Rickey
big
body
on
them
big
body
on
them
he's
huge
doesn't
look
big
and
for
center
man
I
think
he's
104
kilos
bro
so
like
all
these
boys
I'm
just
like
man
what's
in
the
water
they're
just
getting
taller
and
taller
these
days
drinking
out of
the
Brisbane
River
bro
that
Brisbane
Carver
right
there
how
do
you
be
a
good
dad
that's
a
good
question
man
I
see
the
amount
of
effort
you
put
into
your
kids
bro
it's
very
admirable
it's
like
I'm
not
perfect
man
but
I
think
I
I've
got
this
I
guess
this
quote
that
my
uncle
taught
me
and
he
said
the
greatest
thing
that
you
could
ever
give
your
kids
is
time
I
never
understood
it
because
I
lived
with
him
for
a
bit
and
he's
always
been
a
great
dad
he's
always
been
a
mentor
that
I
idolized
and
looked
up
to
he
was
my
coach
when
I
was
younger
and
stuff
so
when
he
said
that
to
me
I
didn't
understand
that
at
the
time
because
I
wasn't
in a
relationship
nor
did
I
have
kids
so
I
think
for
me
it's
just
my
upbringing
was a
big
pillar
for
what
it
takes
to
be
a
parent
what
it
takes
to
be
a
role
model
and
a
mentor
so
I
just
try
and
lead
by
example
my
actions
will
always
speak
better
than
my
words
to
my
kids
so
if
I
would
say
to
my
,
kids
you
need
to
eat
your
greens
am
I
eating
it?
If
I'm
not
then
why
are
they
going
to
eat
it?
You know
what I
mean?
Little
zinger
box in
the
back.
Oh
yeah
100%
so
like
I
guess
for
me
that's
why
I
did
the
give
me
60
challenge
everyone
would
have
seen
on
my
social
media
I
did
this
challenge
to
break
my
bad
habits
for
anyone
that
knows
me
personally
I
love
fast
food
always
have
and
I
started
to
resonate
or
think
about
longevity
in
life
this
ain't
going
to
last
long
my
body's
going
to
break
down
and
I
didn't
want
to
be
that
dad
that
was
like
I
couldn't
play
footy
or
kick
the
ball
around
when
my
kids
are
20
I
jumped
on
this
wave
path
to
create
better
habits
for
myself
so
my
kids
can
see
that
exercise
is a
big
pillar
in
our
life
and
also
health
and
the
diet
and
the
food
that
we
fuel
ourselves
as
a
pillar
in
our
life
so
yeah
I
guess
you
gotta
be
a
you
gotta
preach
what
you
do
and
so
creating
good
health
creating
good
exercise
is only
going
to
allow
for
your
kids
to
have
better
opportunities
in
their
life
the
way
that
you
treat
people
the
way
that
you
speak
to
people
the
way
that
you
treat
your
partner
that's
a big
one
I
get
very
sentimental
when I
see
those
things
on
social
media
the
way
that
you
treat
your
partner
is
going
to
be
the
standard
for
your
daughter
to
look
for
in
a
man
so
if
you're
respectful
to
your
partner
if
you
always
treat
her
with
love
that's
the
standard
that
your
daughter
is
going
to
look
for
in
a
guy
if
you
treat
them
crap
then
your
daughter
is
going
to
go
look
for
that
is
it
harder
to
be
a
parent
to
a
girl
and
boy
I
don't
know
that's
a
good
question
I
think
my
daughter
gets
a
lot
away
a
lot
more
than
my
son
but
in
saying
that
bro
I
feel
like
as
a
dad
to
boys
I
feel
sorry
because
sometimes
I
pick
up
and
my
missus
will
pick
up
on
me
too
I'm
real
hard
on
my
son
I
don't
think
that's
necessarily
a bad
thing
but
I
don't
know
the
border
line
in
footy
people
go
he
played
amazing
and I'm
like
not
really
he
was
tackling
with
his
hands
instead
of
hitting
with
his
shoulders
so
I
think
I'm
constantly
reminding
myself
that I
was a
kid
once
too
and
I
never
got
everything
right
but
it
tests
your
patience
a lot
but
for
me
man
if
you're
being
someone
that
lives
to
your
values
if
you're
being
someone
that
is
being
good
through
your
actions
on
how
you
lead
and
you
show
genuine
love
bro
I
think
that's
all
you
can
do
as
a
dad
bro
it
doesn't
matter
on
the
materialistic
things
that
you
buy
your
kids
it
actually
doesn't
eh
because
I
listen
to
you
talk
and
it
makes
me
reflect
on
my
childhood
and
my
dad
was
always
my
coach
but
I
remember
he
used
to
come
home
from
work
and
if
it
was
a
sunny
day
he
would
take
us
to
the
lake
and
go
for
a
swimmer
for
the
summer
and
he
just
finished
a
12
hour
shift
and
I
come
home
from
work
and
I've
only
got
a
dog
and
he
was
going
for
work
and
I'm
like
oh
fuck
I'm
fucked
it's
different
when you
got
kids
bro
and
I
remember
that
so
clearly
now
yeah
man
and
there's
like
don't
get me
wrong
like
I
said
I'm
not
perfect
bro
there's
times
where
we
get
home
from
school
and
the
kids
want
to
go
for
a
workout
like
my
daughter
is
constantly
asking
me
dad
can
we
go
for
a
workout
and
I've
been
up
since
three
in
the
morning
by
the
time
it
gets
to
the
afternoon
I'm
wrecked
that's
the
equivalent
of
nine
for
someone
else
but
you
know
I
mean
that
time
you're
never
going
to
get
that
time
back
it
happens
so
quick
your
kids
growing
up
man
that
like
when
they
get
to
20
they're
not
going
to
be
wanting
this
time
with
you
they're
not
going
to
be
staying
at
for
your
kids
because
at
the
end
of
the
day
you're
going
to
look
back
and
your
kids
are
going
to
remember
it
for
sure
for
sure
yeah
bro
so
how
to
be
a
good
dad
there's
no
right
or
wrong
answers
bro
it's
just
remember
that
the
greatest
thing
that
you
can
give
your
kids
is
time
and
show
them
love
talk
about
emotions
especially
boys
like
fathers
to
their
sons
let
you
a lot
more
and
yeah
just
be
genuine
in
life
bro
when
you
say
that
emotion
part
and
I
think
about
like
this
with
my
dad
I used to cry heaps
when I was a kid
super competitive
youngest kid
brother just
give me a hearty for no reason
you know what I mean
but my daddy
used to always say to me
if you don't stop crying now
I'll give you a reason to cry
and it's not
not that he'd ever
do anything
but just that saying
when I got older
bro and I'd go through
things I'd just block
off straight away
and it would hit me
like a lot later
but like I don't remember
like crying too much
and as I got older
might have used all my tears
as a kid
but I always just remember
that like
and yeah
and no I think
that's a big
barrier that we've been
trying to knock down
as men
like I speak
ablicky
about it
it's just like
we weren't taught
how to
express our emotions
you know what I mean
it came that time
when I was a captain
for the Bronx
and I broke down
national TV
against the Warriors
like I don't know
why I was crying bro
but at the time
man I was going
through so much trauma
I was going through
so much
emotional
eradication
if you can put it
that way
on and off the field
our team was coming
dead last
right
I was struggling
with my own personal life
okay with family
and all that stuff
that all I knew
was to bottle it up
and not
speak out
you know what I mean
and then once that
wall drops
it drops
yeah bro
and I was like
I couldn't stop
the tears man
it was just
it just hit me
and I wasn't crying
because we lost man
I think it just got
to that point
where like a champagne
bottle the cork
just popped bro
and it just came out
I always say this
about rugby league
like it kind of
fucks you a little bit
because there's not
many jobs in the world
where you judge weekly
and not only judge
like from fans
from coaches
from players
you have to go home
and look yourself
in the mirror
so you look like
you build these
little walls around you
and like it stops
emotion from coming out
so it's like that
you know what I mean
it's good
because you've got this war
so any negative
that comes from the outside
looking in
you're like oh I'm sweet
you know what I mean
but then it stops
anything from going out
and I guess
that's why they call them
feelings
because you actually
have to feel them
for you to start healing
100% man
yeah
100%
glad we're learning it now
hey right
you want to be 60
just go fuck this
hey well like
the media now right
we're breaking down
those pillars man
I think
our era
we come through
the best era
in my eyes
so we come through
the times
before social media
but then we had to learn
about social media
and monetizing
social media
where these
these kids
they're at school now
learning on iPads
and computers
and all that stuff
you know what I mean
so I think for us man
like
our era bro
is just so cool
to be a part of man
because we're
kicking down those barriers
in terms of
feelings
in terms of
personal branding
in terms of business
and all that stuff
like it's kind of cool
yeah
to see both sides
of the rectum
yeah for sure
I never thought of it
nah bro
nah nah
so how do you
how do you replicate
a 90s childhood
to a kid that's born
in the 2010s
do you just throw him outside
and pull the phones off him
bro that's a big one man
yeah
that's a big one
like my kids now
it's only been two weeks now
bro where
like we have no technology
in our house
or not in our house
but
my kids could easily come home
pick up their iPads
after school
and just sit on their iPads
watching YouTube
playing Fortnite
whatever
but we don't do
technology
from Monday to Friday now
oh yeah
I need a Friday
that's like Playstation
back in the day
you can't play Playstation
till the weekend
don't get me wrong
I'm a big
I love gaming bro
I love gaming
and I could come home
from work
and sit on a game
and play Call of Duty
for hours on end
but
I'm trying to break down
those barriers
for my kids
because I realise right
my kids
attention spans
are very short
when they're
on their technology
when I take it away
the tantrums
go through the roof
through the roof
and there's been
a lot of studies around that
because of YouTube
and the colours
and all that stuff
it keeps them addicted
to watching
and so
I've noticed that
when we take that
technology away from them
it allows them to be
innovative
and creative
in terms of like
allowing your kids
to be bored
because now they've got
to figure out
well what can we do
yeah to kill the time
yeah 100
that's a big one
because kids
everything's on demand
the kids are never
bored in a way
so they don't have to
creatively think
they don't have to
creatively think bro
and so like I've seen
it was
I forget who it was
on social media
but it was like
let your kids be bored
and see what they do
don't be a
a fixer for them
see what they do
because I've
I've been watching man
my kids will pick up
they'll go get a
piece of paper bro
and they'll
write cards
and like
they'll draw pictures
or they might even
go outside
and play on the trampoline
together
that's
connection bro
you know what I mean
that's creating
social awareness
I remember my mum
used to do this
where like
when we're bored inside
and she'll like
draw like
she'll draw like
a shape
and then we had to like
build stuff
from that shape
and like a lot of people
go like
how can you come up
with design concepts
so quickly
because like
when I was a kid
I used to always draw
and like I just had
so much time
and boredom
and literally like
go outside
don't come back
into the like
street light
come on
and some days
you're out there
on your own
and you pick up a stick
and then you turn
the tree into a fort
you know what I mean
that was our
like outside bro
that was our playground
that was heaven eh
you know what I mean
that was our playground
you didn't want to
come inside eh
the only rule we had
as kids growing up man
it was like
make sure you're home
before the street lights
come on bro
and like
I say this
I said this to the
students at
the school that I
delivered a workshop
to this morning
we never had phones
around
or we never had
mobile phones
I should say
right so
how do you find out
where your mates were
get on a pushy
and you ride to
all your mates houses
when you see all the
pushies at someone's house
that's how you knew
your mates were there
you know what I mean
and like I look back
on that upbringing bro
like it was the greatest
upbringing I could have had bro
you know what I mean
because we were
climbing trees
we were falling off things
they talk about
helicopter parents right
in the world today man
you gotta let kids be kids
yeah you wanna try
and hold them back
from not getting injured
or hurting themselves
or
you know what I mean
trying to hurt someone else
but
kids are
gonna learn
how to be kids
from making mistakes
sometimes that mistake
could be
breaking a toe
yeah
breaking an arm
get the fluorocast though eh
yeah yeah
you get the fluorocast
it's a learning
it's a learning right
you learn from pain bro
so like you put your hand
on fire and it burns
you're like oh shit
I'm not gonna do that again
100%
and yes we're
as parents
we're trying to be mentors
and we're trying to restrict
but there's a
there's a
there's a line
that you're like
alright we can let them
go this far
but when it's
like a huge risk
then we pull them back
yeah
where's the line
oh that's hard bro
you gotta
you gotta like
adjust and adapt
on the spot man
yeah
obviously when they're
close to a cliff
man
where it's like
life or death situations
sure
there's no brainer there
but where there's a lesson
like riding a bike
right
take the training wheels off
you hold the seat
till you feel like
they can ride on their own
you let go
they might fall
that's alright
understand
pain
yeah
we get back up
we go again
concrete on the knees
that's one of life's
great lessons
the gravel rash
that's how I chip my tooth bro
three of us thinking
on a bike man
so we couldn't
slop ass
we couldn't stop on a hill
so I tried to put my foot
on the front tyre bro
trying to
ride it
next man
think
straight over
landed on my face
learn about physics
oh
100%
I remember
we tried to do
like we had a scooter
and I hit my mate
in the like
shin straight away
with a scooter
fuck that's one of the great pains
crying straight over
bro
100%
hitting your
your shin
or also
stubbing your toe
on the corner of your bed
or cupboard
those things hurt man
yeah
hurt
but um
nah it's
it's a lesson that
kids need to be kids bro
but it's cool
PT brought up a good
point the other day
and I go
what does success
look like to you
and he heard a billionaire say
he goes
success is when
you grow older
and your kids want to
hang out with you
that's so true
yeah I was like
fuck that's cool
that is so true
you're winning in life
if your kids are
adults man
and they want to
come around to
mum and dad's house
because he's like
he goes
me and my mum
got on the piss on Saturday
and I wanted to come over
and hang out with us
and he goes
I want my daughter
to do that for me
yeah that's cool
but Goldie's just
going to do her own thing
yeah
that is so true bro
I think that's the best
way to put it bro
it's not on
how many cars
or houses you have bro
I think it's the quality
in life
that you create
and if your kids
want to come home
and catch up with you
when you're old
like bro
that's a beautiful thing man
you see those trends man
where it's like
started off with two people
and then
the kids come into the shop
and
right
and it's like
then it turned into
eight people
and then their kids
come into the shop
and it started
like 50 people
down the track
love's a beautiful thing bro
and when you can create
a community
within your family
like that
that is so passionate
around being
around family
around
having your kids
growing up
knowing who your
grandparents are
and being around
your grandparents
and the values
that they taught
that gives me goosebumps
bro
that is pretty powerful
I was thinking about this
at my nana's funeral
like maybe five
six years ago
and I was thinking like
the power of woman
that one person
could create
like she was like
one of 16 children
and then like she had
seven children
or six children
and I was one of like
maybe 40 grandkids
I'm like bro
when you said that
that's what it reminded me of
bro
it's crazy eh
yeah 100% man
it's crazy
that's a pretty cool trend bro
I think
Pizzi hit the nail
on the head man
that's true success
right there in my eyes
one of my mentors
was super successful
drives Lambos
blah blah blah
and I was like
before we done work with him
I was like
what's the best part
about being successful
and he goes
every day I get to go home
and serve my family dinner
I don't have to be anywhere
that's cool
I was like
and I was sitting there
I was going
what else
like
I don't have kids
where I can relate to that
sort of shit
you know what I mean
so like
I got a dog you know
but like
I look at this guy
who's super successful
got everything he wants
in the world
and every day
he just wants to go home
and find a new recipe
that he can serve his family with
I was like
oh that's cool
yeah
that's what's up bro
and at the end of the day
right
that comes back to your values man
family will always be
a big value
to many people
to many people
and it's not just the family
that you grew up in
it's the family you create
you know what I mean
and
I'll
create
create's a big
big word
yeah
yeah
because there's a lot of people
who look back on their family
and don't have fond memories too
you know what I mean
100% man
100% bro
and there's a lot of
family values
that you don't agree
agree with
right
and
sometimes you gotta
be like
you know what
that's not a value
that I uphold
and you gotta go against that
that grain
but
if it's for the benefit
of your family
that you create man
like
at the end of the day
you
you gotta
a service to provide
for that family
as a male
for me
yeah
you know what I mean
I think about that too
and I've
I've gotta
provide that safe space
for my family
you know what I mean
so
for me bro
I love coming home
I love being around my kids man
even though it's
chaos
it's not always gonna be chaos
I love that chaos
we always say
as parents man
when your kids have a sleepover
you get excited right
but then it's like
an hour into that excitement
like where
it's quiet at home
yeah
or like you're at dinner
and you're not used to the kids
asking you a thousand questions
at dinner
you're like
man I actually miss it
you know what I mean
although we want our own time
yeah
when we get our own time
we actually miss the chaos
yeah
so it's a beautiful thing
having families
and kids and stuff
but
again
it's a beautiful thing
but
it's a beautiful thing
but again
there's not a time
on when you have to have kids
it will come
when you're ready
and if you don't want kids
that's fine bro
there's no right or wrong way
to live life
I heard a cool quote
the other day on Instagram
and he said
like God unlocks a piece
in your brain
of love
that you can only experience
through having a kid
and like yeah
I heard that
I was like
oh that's pretty cool man
yeah
like as
I say this a lot bro
you know
we talk about
unconditional love
what's unconditional love
and
with pre-kids
you used to think
it was just like
loving your girlfriend
and all that stuff
but
man when a kid comes
into the world bro
and you hear that first cry
you hold them in your hands
it's um
it's a feeling
nothing can ever replace bro
nothing can ever replace
and that's the
like for me
if something was
or something
or someone was waking me up
at one in the morning
two in the morning
screaming down the house bro
I'll be filthy
but when it's your kids bro
you jump out of bed
man
and you
you serve to them
whatever they need
bro you know what I mean
that's what unconditional love is
still filthy though
you might need that
triple shot coffee
in the morning bro
coming to training
oh I had the worst sleep man
little fella kicking me in the face
yeah
but um
I like when some dads
come in some
like at 40
and they talk about
and I remember one of the boys
coming in one time
he goes
he was so angry
that he was like
screaming into the pillow
just going
and he was like
punching the pillow
how do you do that
100% bro
you're not selling the dream well man
no no no
100% man
and I
like bro
every parent man
like
it's hard times
like no one can ever
prepare you for
um
being a dad
or being a parent
in itself
but it's the greatest job
in the world
like I know it's not a job
but
theoretically
it is
you're serving them
24 7
you know what I mean
there's no off switch
but it is
the most fulfilling thing
in your life bro
when you see them
generate
or create their own
characteristics
become themselves bro
it's a beautiful thing G
and the best part is
when you see your own kid
be kind to someone else
for
you know what I mean
you know you're doing
something right bro
yeah
my brother's got
three boys
my nephews
and I remember
we were out for
just having a coffee
and they're very well mannered
and mum and dad
and my brother
done a really good job
with them
and I remember someone
coming up to me
like oh
your boys are so well mannered
they weren't my kids
they thought
your boys are so well mannered
I really
respect that
and I remember
oh I was proud
even though I didn't do anything
I was like
I was proud
that they were
my nephews
on that day
it's a good thing
it's a good thing man
and that comes back
to cultural values bro
so people go to me
man I don't know
how you have three kids
right
Luke Camilleri
from Aspeny Mazda
the car man
that fella's got seven
seven kids bro
you know what I mean
seven kids
and like
I say
yeah three's hard
can you imagine
having seven kids bro
do you reckon
they just all sort of
merge in after four or something
or no
well Benny Hanna said
well it gets easier
because the older kids
help the younger kids
and all that stuff
but
bro you still gotta go through
those hard times man
and
see like you say seven kids
in my mind
I'm like shit
you'd have to prepare
like
nine meals for dinner
and I was like
how the fuck do you even do that
100% bro
100%
and like
Luke's one of my
greatest mentors
that I have in my circle bro
because
one he understands people
he understands business
he runs a very successful
business up there
but he understands
the power of family as well
like his kids are amazing bro
they're so amazing
they're so respectful
they're so polite
that's not easy to do
with seven kids
you know what I mean
yeah just even by the law of averages
there could be one brat in there somewhere
yeah 100%
but at the same time right
that's a lot of mouths to feed
that's a lot of nappies to change
and you look at
the life of a kid
the life that he's created
he's very successful man
very very successful
you cannot get to a level like that
without having good morals and values bro
you know what I mean
random question
what's your favorite part about golden retrievers?
oh bro
they're the best family dog in my eyes
I grew up with a golden retriever
yeah that's why I love them so much
yeah right
see like
we never really had pets growing up
as kids
because we had too many cousins
and they're running around
but ever since I met Jem
she was a vet nurse
always been around animals
surrounded by animals
I think we were six months in
she got me a golden retriever
for my birthday bro
best thing that happened to me
Oscar
Oscar
yeah bro
like it's
it's just like that
I guess
you talk about
a dog's love
and a dog's purpose man
they're just there for you
you know what I mean
I think there was another thing
on social media
I hate bringing that up
but
I think there was another thing
there was a
there was a couple
that was sitting on this hill
with the most amazing sunset
or sunrise
or what
and everyone's looking out there
but their dog's looking back at them
yeah
because that's
you know what I mean
and in their eyes
that's the greatest thing in the world
and
I think it just
yeah bro
it's just
awesome having that companion around you
but more so
they love kids man
and they're so placid around kids bro
you see
all our puppies
because the Mrs. Bree's golden retrievers
chasing goldens
and
you see all the puppies
around with my kids
the kids are rough as with them
you know what I mean
but
these puppies grow up
with that
so
when they get into families
that are loving
and all that stuff
like
it just creates that nature with them bro
and it's
yeah
golden retrievers are epic
epic
they're just playful
they're a bit ditzy too eh
what do you mean ditzy
like
like a little bit dumb eh
like
dumb but happy
yeah they're very happy
I think every dog's very happy
um
but yeah I think
like they love playtime
they like absolutely love playtime
you pull a ball out
with a golden retriever man
they will not take
their eyes off it
I follow this Instagram page
and these like
two golden retrievers
there's always a tennis ball in the water
and they're just like
yeah
yeah
they look at you
they look back at the ball
they look at you
you know what I mean
and there's that movie called Up
and it's got the golden retriever in it
oh yeah it does too
yeah
and that's like
the
epitome of what a good dog is
golden is bro
like
you talk about ball bro
and he goes chase the ball
but then he comes back
and he's wagging his tail at you
I just love
the nature of what the dog's all about bro
um
they are very family friendly
they are very playful
they're great around kids
um
so having
a house full of golden retrievers man
is pretty cool
it's hard work bro
yeah
there's a lot of poos to pick up
bro
when I was at your house the other day
I looked over the fence
and all the dogs were there
and not one of them barked
they were all just like happy
yeah bro
yeah it's funny man
it's funny bro
yeah
I probably shouldn't say this on air
but like
if you walk past my house
sometimes my dogs will have this big bark
right
yeah
but then
they'll see you
and their tails are just going nuts
so it's like
they put this front on
yeah
they're like
they're a big guided dog
but if you see them man
freaking hell
they just want pats and attention
oh
this made me think um
I was down at the beach
maybe two three months ago
and I met this guy
who trains at Legacy
and he's got a golden retriever
and um
I was just talking to
he just come up and said hello
he goes I know who you are
blah blah
I was like oh hey
like what do you do
and um
he went for a really
rough time over Christmas
where his partner had left him
and he said if it wasn't for Legacy
he wouldn't know
if he'd still be there
that's cool bro
yeah
that is cool
and I put the video on um
not talking about it
but I put that
photo of the dog
on my story
and Jim knew who it was
straight away
yeah yeah
fuck so that must be cool to hear bro
bro that's uh
that's
when you talk about purpose bro
like that's what
Legacy was all about
and is about man
it's creating that safe space
for our people
and I remember that time man
it was hard for him bro
yeah
and uh
the amount of conversations
we we talk about
um
how the power of exercise
you know what I mean
like when you're in your darkest times
the last thing you want to do
is exercise
but that
endorphin hit
that it
has on your body
when you finish it
that feel good drug
that naturally gets produced
when you
only exercise
man it does wonders for yourself bro
so
yeah bro
that's
when you talk about purpose man
it gives me
it's not about how many members we have
it's not about how much money we make
it's the
the feeling
of validation
the feeling that you create
within people's lives
you empower them to be better
that's the kick I get out of it bro
is that where you want your legacy to be?
absolutely
absolutely
that's
that's what I want
our legacy
our legacy to be
that's what I want
other people's legacy to be bro
is
the power that you give other people man
it's a beautiful thing
sometimes we always think about us
yeah
right
and like I want to make the money
I want to have that fast car
but
man
when you can
break off from that bro
and
you know
wish the best upon someone else
and go out of your way
to help other people bro
sometimes you can't put a price on that
and
you know
I've
I look at
post footy right
the circle that I have of mates
that are very successful
like yourself
in business
in life
very successful
in different avenues
I've
got Aiden and Nick
that work
they branch out on themselves
called
hyper creative
I first met them
through esports
and they
were
looking after the team
called Chiefs
esports
and
mate
those guys are
amazing at what they do
in the realm of esports
and now these guys
took a step back
from the esports staff
and wanted to branch out
on themselves
and the marketing agencies
and all that stuff
and
what they're doing in America
is amazing bro
like these guys are living
in the influencer house
rubbing shoulders
with YG
like
rubbing shoulders
with Thai dollar sign
like
all these guys
that we idolize right
these are just two boys
from
from Brizzy
that seen a
that had faith in themselves
believed in their purpose
and they've gone out
and just
winged it
and chased their dreams
you know what I mean
now they're living
they're driving McLarens
they're driving Lamborghinis
you know what I mean
like bro that's cool
yeah
and I get to surround myself
with these guys
that
one
they hire me to go out
and produce content for them
and
and we get to speak to
the fans
and not be
dictator about
what we can and can't say
they just give me a clean slate
you know what I mean
and
I am very lucky
when I talk about my legacy
to be surrounded by
all these successful people
that help
inspire me to keep going
and doing what I'm doing
give me a free range
of like
or limitations
to do what I do bro
I'm not locked up in a prison cell
or
a low level roof
they're like man
whatever you want to do
go do it
and we'll support you
you know what I mean
that's cool
that's nice
that's cool
but that empowers you
to want to do that for others too
for sure
for others too
yeah bro
so in terms of legacy man
like
what we do in the gym
what we do
in our day to day bro
like it's always going to live on
but it comes back to our three values
and I live by that
to the day
great
great way to wrap up the podcast
bro just want to say
thanks for jumping on
really enjoyed this chat
let's do it again soon
let's do it my brother
thanks brother
you're doing what you're doing bro
proud of you
appreciate you
let's go
we'll see you soon
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